Friday, February 12, 2021

What's Cookin' 2/12/2021

 It's been a bit since I've posted on this blog. Life has been busy and it's just been easier to post to FB. But it's getting old posting each recipe individually for the What's Cooking posts so here we go here again.

Recipes for this week and last week include:

corn chowder (put in slow cooker between basketball games)
pork and shrimp carnitas/taco bar
chicken and cheese noodle bake (allow time to make cream of mushroom soup)  
Creamy white chicken chili with cream cheese (30 min +/- meal OR slow cooker)
chicken and noodles with mashed potatoes
cheeseburger pot pie (serve with cherry pie cupcakes)
pigs in a blanket/hot dogs, mac and cheese 

Sunday, September 15, 2019

What's Cookin' This Week (Sept. 14-20)

Saturday:
apple mustard chicken tenders, homemade applesauce, baked pears

Sunday: garlic butter chicken and pasta (slow cooker!)

Monday: beef taco skillet, avocado salad, corn

Tuesday: crock pot potato soup, grilled cheese sandwiches, fruit

Wednesday: YOYO (You're On Your Own)

Thursday: beefy tortellini skillet, green beans, salad

Friday: school night sausage stroganoff, salad, raw veggies and fruit that need to be eaten

Wednesday, February 6, 2019

Why I joined Young Living (in which I talk about drinking the kool-aid, so to speak)

That's the "burning" question, isn't it? Why would I, of all people, join a network marketing company? That's crazy! I gave up following the latest fads years ago. That's what essential oils are, right? I'd heard about them here and there, seen them on store shelves, and really just didn't think much of them. And I've had an abhorrence for multi level marketing schemes for a long time. Then my sweet sister-in-law discovered Young Living and would not shut up about them! Again with the fads, I thought. But then she kept talking about them and sharing information about the benefits of essential oils and even giving me some things to try. But still, just a fad, right? They are going to go the way of so many other things, dropped as soon as the next "hot" thing comes along. Except they didn't. So I took a look and wowza! Those things were pricey! I'm a teacher. My husband is a teacher. We have three young kids and at that time were paying a lawyer to help us get our youngest adopted after the system royally screwed things up. There was no way I could justify paying that much for something I wasn't sure we would even use. I'd really rather spend that money on organic food. Cleaning up our diet with fresh food was my biggest passion then (and is still a pretty big passion). I knew nothing about "diffusing" and really wasn't sure I wanted to go around rolling oily stuff on my kids all the time. I'm not THAT crunchy of a mama after all! Jen came back from an oils convention so excited that I even referred to it as "drinking the kool-aid." It seemed almost cultish to me to tell the truth. Rather similar to my complete obsession with the food co-op we belonged to at the time (obsession might be a mild term). Around that same time Jen added me to one of the support groups on Facebook run by her team. And that's what tipped the balance for me. Not toxic chemical free living (which I hadn't even learned about yet), not oils helping my kids keep from getting colds or sleep better, not making my house smell good, not earning money on the side. Nope. Not one of those things. It was FOOD. I had been searching for an easy and quick breakfast option for awhile and knew shakes or smoothies were the answer. I really wanted to use a protein powder and could not find one that I liked and that didn't have some really nasty stuff in it. Then the leader of the Facebook group I was glancing at now and then posted a "live unboxing" of her latest Young Living order and she raved about their protein powder. I sat on that for awhile then called Jen to see how I could go about getting some to try. One thing led to another during that conversation and she convinced me to go for a starter kit (since they were running a special) as well. After I hung up the phone I almost had a panic attack. What had I done? We didn't have that kind of money to just throw away! How am I going to explain this to my husband? YIKES!

Enter Jen and the support of the rest of the team. Jen had sent me some resources and information before that I had just kind of stashed away for when I had some time to mess with it and then never looked at again. I dug that out and started reading. And then I opened up the Young Living website and started reading some more. And then I hit Google search and well..... Sarah Harnisch's book Fearless really resonated with me and gave me a nice guide to follow when my kit arrived. We started off just diffusing and low and behold it MADE A DIFFERENCE! My kids went to bed when they were supposed to. WHAT??? They would come home from school all prickly and grumbly and would settle down after awhile if I started the diffuser. On a whim I tried some copaiba on my lower back and I could bend over without feeling like I was going to break. I HATED the smell of Stress Away when I first opened the bottle. Hated it for weeks! But I noticed my mood and attitude really improved when I used just a little bit on my body or diffused it (it is now one of my very favorites, by the way). Frankincense was my jam, though, and the first bottle we emptied. My little bitty wild child begged for lavender all. the. time. Her favorite color is now purple/ Her favorite doll is named Lavender. You get the picture.  And don't even get me started on Thieves cleaner and NingXia Red (at least not in this post!). When I started reading about toxic chemicals and how they affect us I was hooked, at least for the moment. When I started learning about Young Living's ethics and practices I became a life long supporter.  Oh, and the protein shakes? DELISH! And a near-daily part of my diet.

This journey has taken me down the path of using that chemistry knowledge I gained in school, "green cleaning" my home in an effective way, purging our home of as many toxic chemical laden products as I could, learning to DIY a lot of things, and brushing up on my Latin (because it's kind of important to know the difference between eucalyptus globula and eucalyptus radiata and who knew there were that many kinds of frankinsence?). My body feels better, my hormones are more balanced, and the terrible cracks in my feet are gone. We sleep better and are more effective at combating anxiety. My house and my clothes feel and smell clean (well, as clean as they can with three kids and a puppy). I have fluffy towels!  My older dog has found relief for her itchy ears. My youngest has far fewer headaches/ migraines since we switched out our cleaning and laundry products (no young child should ever have to struggle with migraines!). The sniffles have been minor to nonexistent.

So yes, I drank the kool-aid and I am so glad I did! It has been worth every penny spent, every minute doing research. I won't say I wish I'd jumped on board sooner because I do and I don't. I truly believe that NOW was the right time for us; there are things about our life that I feel would have been very different had we discovered oils and all that they've led to earlier. But then we wouldn't have what we have now, quite possibly including our three beautiful children.  I do so wish, though, that I could have heard Gary Young speak in person. What a fascinating man! His was a life well lived.  What a gift he has given us.

Sunday, February 3, 2019

What's Cookin' this week?

On the menu this week:
Sunday: pork carnitas, caramelized veggies, Brazilian broiled pineapple
Monday: chicken salad rollups, mac and cheese, salad, fresh fruit
Tuesday: unstuffed shells casserole, salad
Wednesday: easy taco pie and Mexican hot chocolate cookies
Thursday: leftovers
Friday: a meal from the freezer, not sure which one yet

On the Oiling/DIY plan:
foaming face wash
peppermint-lavender sugar scrub
lavender-peppermint or maybe lavender-stress away bath salts (haven't decided yet; maybe I'll make both!)
mermaid hair spray
dishwasher detergent
figuring out the correct dilution ratios for my new copaiba-vanilla shampoo and conditioner

Friday, December 21, 2018

DIY Laundry Detergent (In which I talk about moving to a toxin-free life style)



In my search for solutions to help my kids with some of the issues they have dealt with since birth (focus and attention, impulsivity, emotional volatility, sensory processing issues, anxiety) I began to learn that I needed to look beyond diet to see long lasting results. The more I researched  the more I realized that the products we used every day to clean our home and our things were part of the problem. We have been lead to believe that these laboratory-created, chemical laden products are not only safe but beneficial and we don't hesitate to spray them around, use them on items that touch our food, slather them on our and our children's skin (hello, the largest organ in the body and it absorbs EVERYTHING!), and basically inundate our environment with them. After finding a company I felt I could trust (and I joined the company for other reasons than this--another post about that sometime in the future) I committed to buying our cleaning products from them which, admittedly, was a bit pricey for our budget. After learning more I realized just how very concentrated these products are and how easy it is to stretch them by making DIY versions of the products we use every day. One of my favorites is laundry detergent.

Unless you live in a nudist colony, or you are under the age of 5, you  spend close to 24 hours a day with clothing touching your skin. You launder this same clothing in lovely smelling detergent and probably put it in the dryer with a dryer sheet or perhaps you use a liquid fabric softener. Your clothes come out smelling fresh and clean. But are they REALLY clean? The chemicals in your laundry detergent, fabric softener, and dryer sheets have bonded with the fibers in your clothes. And now they are touching your skin which is happily absorbing all of that. A quick search of the Environmental Watch Group of your favorite laundry products will show you a host of endocrine disrupting chemicals (impacting growth and development, hormones, and reproduction among other things), chemicals that cause respiratory and skin reactions, and chemical that affect the nervous system (ding ding ding I have kids who have allergy and nervous system issues). I am an avid label reader for the foods we put into our bodies and I have eliminated many things from our family's diet. But I wasn't doing the same for the other products we used (did you know that toothpaste contains saccharine and/or aspartame?). It was doing me little good to limit the toxins we were putting INTO our bodies if we continued to put them ONTO and AROUND our bodies!

I made the switch to wool dryer balls instead of dryer sheets and now make my own detergent. My clothes are clean and they smell amazing! OK, they actually don't smell like much of anything, which everyone in my family actually prefers to the heavy fragrance from our previous laundry detergent and dryer sheets (even though I have always used products with a low "smelly" factor, preferring "unscented" to anything else). The only complaints I have about wool dryer balls is they don't always deal well with the static that can build up, especially with synthetic fabrics, and I have to be more careful unloading the dryer to make sure none of the balls have hidden themselves inside clothing. I learned that setting my dryer to a shorter drying time helps with the static issue and my 5 year old likes to "hunt for balls" when we unload the dryer. More importantly, the clothes feel and smell fresh, our towels are FLUFFY, and we are saving money and time.

I use this recipe from Lemons Lavender and Laundry and it works beautifully. If we ever get a new washer I will be able to get even more loads from one gallon of DIY detergent (our washer is a 24 year old top loader that is still going strong). Young Living's Thieves laundry soap and Thieves household cleaner combined with washing soda and baking soda do a great job of getting everything clean. I can choose to add additional scent with essential oils if I want but I'm pretty happy with just the basic detergent and unscented dryer balls.

Price break down:
Washing Soda approx. $4.00 for a 56 oz box ($0.08 per ounce) = $0.16 per gallon
Baking soda approx. $1.50 for a 32 oz box ($0.05 per ounce) = $0.10 per gallon
Thieves laundry detergent $29.50 for 32 oz ($0.92 per ounce) =$1.84 per gallon
Thieves household cleaner $22.50 for 14.4 oz (1.56 per ounce) = $1.56 per gallon
Total cost: 3.66 for 128 ounces/1 gallon of detergent ($0.03 per ounce); I use 1/4 C/2 oz of detergent per load for approx. $0.06 per load
My previous detergent cost between $0.08-$0.10 per ounce which came to $0.16-$0.20 per load. I am saving $0.10  per load not including dryer sheets ($0.04-$0.05 per sheet), which I don't use anymore. That may not seem like much but it will add up over time. That's $1.00-$1.50 saved for every 10 loads (family of 5, we easily do 7-8 loads per week). Best of all I know exactly what is in my detergent and that it is safe for my family.

I've been using this detergent for approximately 6 weeks. I have noticed a definite improvement in my histamine levels (seasonal allergies would not be a player for me during this time period) and I have no scent-induced headaches (strong scents are a head ache trigger for me). My two younger children have skin sensitivities which have almost completely disappeared. It is difficult to ascertain if we are getting behavioral improvements because there are so many factors that influence that. However, any and all toxin reduction will help with that over time by allowing the body to dedicate resources used to clean toxins to other systems.


Friday, December 14, 2018

About the Blog Title (in which I talk a bit about how our kids got their names)

Our kids are all adopted from foster care. This means that they all came to use with original or birth names. When we adopted them it was important to us to have a part in their naming beyond giving them our last name. The names we chose were inspired by the Bible and, unintentionally, can all be found in the Beatitudes, one of our favorite passages from the New Testament. Our oldest represents Love (Grace is a synonym for love and the Grace of God has touched her life since the moment she was conceived), our middle child represents Hope (his name comes from Jeremiah 29:11; we prayed that verse over him and our family almost from the time he came to us and continue to do so), and our youngest has Faith as part of her name (because her life with us has required a tremendous amount of faith: that she would stay with our family, that she would gain our last name, that she will overcome all the obstacles placed in her path from before she was even born).(NOTE:  I hesitate to share much specific information about their origins as those are their stories to tell, not mine.) All of them are beautiful, all of them are perfectly and wonderfully made, and all of them were specially chosen by God to be our children. All together they have brought us tremendous JOY.

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